Why God?

Why does God allow bad things to happen to believers?

I was thinking this morning about all the young girls who are growing up without godly fathers.  I don't think dads have a clue how important they are in the lives of their daughters.  Most dads pay attention to their boys - after all, sons are their opportunity to live their lives again - vicariously  - through their little boys.  They want more for their sons than what they had or experienced.  They've lived their lives and made mistakes - as Larry's mom told him - "parents know where all the potholes in life are and if children will listen, parents can guide their sons and daughters around those potholes".  Right?  So dads spend lots of time trying to mold their sons into their image - only a bigger, stronger, smarter, better version. 

But daughters are a different story.  Lots of dads feel at a loss of how to deal with little girls.  So they back away, and let mom take the lead. That's not good.  Little girls need their daddies.  If they don't have a relationship with a godly dad, many end up getting married way too young, falling for the first little boy who says the "right things".  Girls need dads that are strong, leading their families with gentle firmness; dads who are not afraid to show love, not afraid to admit when they are wrong, but willing to fight to death to protect their families.  That makes little girls feel safe and loved.

I could go on and on about why little girls need their daddies, but the thought that God was putting into my head was why does God allow believers to have problems in our lives?  Why does a young girl who is a faithful follower of Christ have to deal with a dad who does not provide the support - emotional, financial, spiritual - that she deserves?

I know the answer. 

First, of course, we live in a fallen world.  Satan is the prince of this world and he only has a short time before he will be cast into the lake of fire.  Until that time, he wants to destroy anyone who follows the Son of God.  He seethes with anger and hatred towards Christ because Christ has everything Satan wants but will never have: honor, glory and respect.   So he causes as much turmoil and pain as he can.  He wants us all to be miserable and feel hopeless and unloved.  And he does a really good job at whispering those lies into our hearts. 

But Secondly, I believe God allows those very difficult things in the lives of His children because He wants us to show non-believers how His children respond differently to bad situations, because they trust His love, no matter what.

He wants our lives to be living sacrifices - shouting our testimony of His faithfulness even in the hardest things.  He blesses us with the burdens of this world so that we can be His witnesses.  When He allows something so difficult we can hardly bear it, He is trusting that we will rise above the natural human response and shout His praise even through the pain.  His purpose is that others will see His love and strength providing everything we need to get through it so that non-believers will be drawn to Him. 

We all listen more intently to someone who has experienced the same struggles we are experiencing.  We tend to discount advice from someone who has "never been there" even their advice are words straight from the Bible.   But if we know someone has gone through the loneliness and despair of feeling unloved by a dad or mom, or maybe they've experienced the loss of a loved one or debilitating illness or disease, or if they have firsthand knowledge of watching their child battle life threatening health issues, our ears perk up, and we listen.  We want to know how they manage.  We want to see how they've survived so we can do what they did in order to get through our adversities.  Their adversities become a powerful testimony - a platform to speak of Jesus.

That young girl that was on my heart this morning can be a powerful witness to other girls she knows who are dealing with an absent father or one who isn't all he needs to be as a dad.  She can testify to the comfort and love she has from her Heavenly Father - the peace she had knowing He will never leave nor forsake her. That thing that hurts so much - a dad who isn't there - can become her platform to shout God's faithfulness in her life.

This world is not our home.  But while we're here, God gives us opportunities to touch the lives of others for Him.  If we had any idea of how incredibly wonderful our Eternal home will be, we would take every opportunity given to us to speak of His love and goodness.  We wouldn't be able to keep our mouths shut about the precious Gift Christ offers to those who accept it.  The adversity God allows in our lives would turn out to be our greatest blessing -  an opportunity to sing His praise to those who are hurting and need the Savior.


The great commission came from Jesus Himself. 

Matthew 28:18-20

New King James Version (NKJV)

¹⁸ And Jesus came and spoke to them, saying, “All authority has been given to Me in heaven and on earth. ¹⁹ Go therefore and make disciples of all the nations, baptizing them in the name of the Father and of the Son and of the Holy Spirit, ²⁰ teaching them to observe all things that I have commanded you; and lo, I am with you always, even to the end of the age.” Amen.


It's not always easy to teach people the gospel with words.  Adversity is an opportunity to shine for Jesus, to show His power in our lives and others will see.

He is our provider, protector, strength, healer, redeemer, advocate, comforter....

            “You'll never know that Jesus is all you need until Jesus is all you have.”

                                                         Max Lucado

 

 

Paul faced more adversity than just about anyone, yet He used that adversity to be a witness for His LORD.    We should follow his example.  Instead of asking God "why?", maybe we should ask God "HOW can I be Your witness in this trial?"

 

I find great encouragement and comfort from others who have faced my same struggles.  This passage from Paul's letter to the Phillipians is a perfect example of how we face adversity through His strength. 

 

 

Philippians 4

4 Therefore, my beloved and longed-for brethren, my joy and crown, so stand fast in the Lord, beloved.

Be United, Joyful, and in Prayer

² I implore Euodia and I implore Syntyche to be of the same mind in the Lord. ³ And I urge you also, true companion, help these women who labored with me in the gospel, with Clement also, and the rest of my fellow workers, whose names are in the Book of Life.

⁴ Rejoice in the Lord always. Again I will say, rejoice!

⁵ Let your gentleness be known to all men. The Lord is at hand.

⁶ Be anxious for nothing, but in everything by prayer and supplication, with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God; ⁷ and the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus.

Meditate on These Things

⁸ Finally, brethren, whatever things are true, whatever things are noble, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report, if there is any virtue and if there is anything praiseworthy—meditate on these things. ⁹ The things which you learned and received and heard and saw in me, these do, and the God of peace will be with you.

Philippian Generosity

¹⁰ But I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at last your care for me has flourished again; though you surely did care, but you lacked opportunity. ¹¹ Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content: ¹² I know how to be abased, and I know how to abound. Everywhere and in all things I have learned both to be full and to be hungry, both to abound and to suffer need. ¹³ I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.

¹⁴ Nevertheless you have done well that you shared in my distress. ¹⁵ Now you Philippians know also that in the beginning of the gospel, when I departed from Macedonia, no church shared with me concerning giving and receiving but you only. ¹⁶ For even in Thessalonica you sent aid once and again for my necessities. ¹⁷ Not that I seek the gift, but I seek the fruit that abounds to your account. ¹⁸ Indeed I have all and abound. I am full, having received from Epaphroditus the things sent from you, a sweet-smelling aroma, an acceptable sacrifice, well pleasing to God. ¹⁹ And my God shall supply all your need according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus. ²⁰ Now to our God and Father be glory forever and ever. Amen.

Greeting and Blessing

²¹ Greet every saint in Christ Jesus. The brethren who are with me greet you. ²² All the saints greet you, but especially those who are of Caesar’s household.

²³ The grace of our Lord Jesus Christ be with you all. Amen.

Lord, write Your word on my heart so I never forget. You will provide everything I need for ever circumstance You allow. Be gloried in my life. Please take control, give me Your wisdom so that I can be Your witness no matter what's happening in my life.  I'm trusting in You to work all things together for good according to Your purpose. Nothing I ask or imagine can compare to Your will for me. In the blessed Name of Jesus, I pray. Amen

 

http://youtu.be/4mmgV6mPvb0 - Blessings - Laura Story

What if our blessings come in raindrops?

This morning I was thinking about struggles that people I love are facing.
I was thinking that as a mom, if I had the power, I would remove every struggle
my child might be facing.  I'd make his/her life easy and happy, no bumps, no
disappointments, no sadness...

So my next thought was if God really loves us, His children, more than we can possibly imagine, and He definitely has the power to remove the bumps in the road and make our lives easy and happy with no disappointments, no sadness, why doesn't He? 

Because I believe God loves us beyond our understanding, a love that goes so much deeper than any parent's love ( I know this is impossible to comprehend), I know that His love is perfect and good.  I hold on to Jeremiah 29:11-14:

¹¹ For I know the plans I have for you,” says the Lord. “They are plans for good and not for disaster, to give you a future and a hope. ¹² In those days when you pray, I will listen. ¹³ If you look for me wholeheartedly, you will find me. ¹⁴ I will be found by you,” says the Lord. “I will end your captivity and restore your fortunes. I will gather you out of the nations where I sent you and will bring you home again to your own land.”

If I believe the words of the LORD, that He has a plan for me - it's for good and not evil, a plan to give me a hope and a future, then I must trust that whatever HE allows in my life can be used to bring me to that plan and purpose.  If the struggle He allows continues, even though I'm pleading with Him to remove the struggle, then I have to believe that either I need to handle the struggle in a different way, or that maybe there is someone in my life watching how I handle the struggle, watching how I trust God through it all. 

I know my Father loves me even more than I love my own children.  If I would move heaven and earth to keep my children safe from harm, to give them a hope and a future, how much more would our heavenly Father work in our lives to bring us to that promised hope?


First, I have to remember:  Never, ever doubt His love and goodness.

He proved His love by sending His beloved Son to earth to live a human life full of abuse, beatings, isolation, ridicule, betrayal, insults...  God allowed His precious Son to go through all those things, and ultimately, He allowed Jesus to die on the cross an agonizing death.  Why?  Because He loved us enough to allow the suffering for a moment for Eternal good for His children.

Whatever the struggle or suffering we may face on earth, Jesus understands.  He's been there.  I know.  He didn't have to face "your exact struggle", right?   But think about it.
What is the emotion that your struggle brings into your heart?  Fear? Loneliness? Rejection? Physical pain? Isolation? Humiliation?  What emotion are you dealing with that Jesus didn't have to work through? 

He was a solitary man.  He had no spouse or children to call "family".  He was betrayed by his dearest friends.  He had no home of his own.  No financial wealth.  He had no place to lay his head.  He was God, yet refused to cling to His rights as God.  He set aside all the glory and honor that was rightfully His, to live a human existence.  He showed us how to deal with adversity.  He taught us to keep our eyes on Eternity and to love others enough to give up our own "rights and comfort" to help someone in need.
As He breathed His last breath, I wonder how disappointed He felt in His friends?  They left Him to face the worst moments of His life alone. 

Jesus allowed His Father to use those struggles and the pain for the good of others.
Maybe that's what God is waiting for us to do with our struggles.  Maybe if we saw our pain and suffering as opportunities to shine light into the darkness, just like Jesus did, maybe then our struggles wouldn't seem like such burdens.  Maybe then we could begin to see our struggles as blessings that God uses to grow us into the kind of people He wants us to be.  Maybe we are supposed to be like Jesus and trust our Father through whatever suffering He allows. 


The question is "How can I use my struggle to shine for Jesus?"  How can I testify to His love through the struggle I face?" 

I must respond to the struggle the way Jesus responded to His struggles and suffering.  He loved those who persecuted Him.  He didn't sit around thinking how difficult His life was.  Instead, He reached out to others.  He lifted the burdens off those around Him with His love and kindness.  HE loved His Father and He loved others, no matter what He was dealing with.  He cared more about others than Himself.

Whatever I face today, whatever monumental battle I might think I have, His battle was worse.  He took on the sins of the entire world, all the shame, the regrets, the filthiness, the hurt and brokeness caused by our sins, Jesus took all that on Himself.  He didn't stop and say "Father, this isn't fair?  Don't you love Me?  Why are You allowing Me to suffer?"   He knew His Father.  And Jesus knew that He could trust Him completely.  So, He faced every struggle, every pain with honor and humility.  Maybe that's how I need to face my struggles, too. 

A Cheerful Giver

http://youtu.be/d61LamkXfwk - God of the City - Chris Tomlin

2 Corinthians 9:7
⁷ You must each decide in your heart how much to give. And don’t give reluctantly or in response to pressure. “For God loves a person who gives cheerfully.” ⁸ And God will generously provide all you need. Then you will always have everything you need and plenty left over to share with others. ⁹ As the Scriptures say,

“They share freely and give generously to the poor.
Their good deeds will be remembered forever.”

Our Sunday morning Women's Class has been studying Paul's letters to the church in Corinth for the last several weeks.  Oh how much Paul loved that group of believers!  As I read his words, I hear his heart felt devotion and concern for the people whom he had brought to Christ.  He loved them as a man would love his very own children. 

Our lesson next week will be in chapter 7 of 2 Corinthians, so I sat down to study chapter 7 this morning.  For some reason,  I decided that I should go back and read from the beginning of of this letter in order to bring Paul's message all together in my mind.  After all 2 Corinthians is one letter that was surely written by Paul to be read at one sitting.  When I finished reading chapter 7, I felt the need to continue on.  As I began to read chapter 8, I realized that God had very intentionally brought me to this passage this morning.

The reason this message is so powerful to me this morning is that I had just received another email from my precious friend, Oscar.  Once again, he is pleading for assistance so that he and Emma can help provide care for a very sick widow and her two children.  If you've not read Oscar's emails in last several days, Benter is a young woman whose husband died, leaving her with two young children.  Because of customs in Kenya, when a man dies, his property - all of his property - goes to birth family - not to his wife and children.  This practice is so common that apparently, families don't think twice about chasing the widow and children away from their home.  It's despicable to us, but in their eyes, it's normal. 

Oscar's email this morning:

Thanks alot for the money we received on saturday for our primary kids ,Emma bought all the needs for the kids yesterday ,thanks alot .
Mom,we went to visit Benter yesterday but she really in need of help.She is living along the corridors of the clinic and her condition is bad.We thought of taking her to the centre but she needs some isolation for a while due to her health condition.She has some serious skin infection and cough that can not allow her live within our centre.She needs to get a place and visit the clinic iweekly,she has been offered free medical services only.We bought her some food and fruits yesterday.She is going to get a free HIV/AIDS test today ,the nurse treating her is suggesting so due to her condition.
This lady needs some private shelter ,beddings, food and some little help for a while .
Her two kids also needs to be in school .We think her skin and chest is persisting due to lack good meals and beddings.
I think Shelly Howay promised to send us some help towards the issue of this lady.We talked to the nurse yesterday and promised to look for her accomodation else where since they have given her a notice to vacate the premises immediately.
The nurse is doing her part and only promised to give her only free medical treatments and nothing more.
Am therefore appealing to our friends to come out and help us resettle this lady some where  next to the clinic .
Timoland also is expected to join college latest 10th of this month .so lets pray we serve a faithful God and very able father.
God is good and thanks alot for the photo of Kim and family .Lets get all our friends photos,we also love the photos too.We see you friends close to us and as we pray we see you all close to us too.Kindly send us Tyler's photo and his friends too.
Reply,
Son,
Oscar

Oscar and Emma found Benter on the streets.  She is very sick. She has no shelter, no food, only clothing on her back.  She has no way to provide for her children.  Because she is so sick, I am afraid that she most likely has HIV/AIDS.  I don't know for sure, but I'm guessing that's what killed her husband, and now Benter is probably die, too, without proper care and nutrition and medicine.  Then her children will be completely alone.

I can read Oscar's emails about this situation and my heart breaks.  I get all teary eyed and wonder what I would do if I was Benter.  But then I move on to the next email and Benter is pushed back in my mind.  And I'm ashamed to say, I only think about her when Oscar forces me to with another email describing her plight.

Oscar and Emma don't forget about people.  They are committed to finding help for Benter.  When I read this passage, it reminds me of my friends, Oscar and Emma:

2 Corinthians 6
³ We put no stumbling block in anyone’s path, so that our ministry will not be discredited. ⁴ Rather, as servants of God we commend ourselves in every way: in great endurance; in troubles, hardships and distresses; ⁵ in beatings, imprisonments and riots; in hard work, sleepless nights and hunger; ⁶ in purity, understanding, patience and kindness; in the Holy Spirit and in sincere love; ⁷ in truthful speech and in the power of God; with weapons of righteousness in the right hand and in the left; ⁸ through glory and dishonor, bad report and good report; genuine, yet regarded as impostors; ⁹ known, yet regarded as unknown; dying, and yet we live on; beaten, and yet not killed; ¹⁰ sorrowful, yet always rejoicing; poor, yet making many rich; having nothing, and yet possessing everything.

Having nothing, yet possessing everything!  That's Oscar and Emma. 

I am constantly at battle with the Enemy.  He whispers lies in my ear.  "You can't send that email out to everyone.  They are tired of you asking for help.  Oscar always needs something.  It's never going to end and the more people give, the more he wants!  All your "friends" are tired of hearing about Oscar.  Give them a break.  You always have your hand out for that man.  You can't fix this problem in Oscar's world.  It's too big and it's never going to get any better!"

Those are the lies that run through my head.  The problem is that there is just enough truth to create a battle in my mind.  But for every lie, I hear the Voice of truth, reminding me:

Truth Number 1: 
I'm sure some of my friends are tired of hearing about Oscar's needs, but not all my friends.  Some of my friends care deeply for Oscar and his ministry.   I don't expect everyone to have the same passion for this work as I do. There are so many wonderful ministries that need help.  God softens the hearts of those He has chosen to help Happy Choice.  It's Him, not me who will provide the Hands and Feet for this work.

Truth Number 2:
And, yes, Oscar does always need something.  But not because he is selfish and self-promoting like so many others are.  Oscar sees with Jesus' eyes.  Everywhere he turns, he sees people who are hurting, and unlike me, Oscar can't just erase what he has seen.  His heart breaks for those people.   So he relays the needs he sees to me, trusting that I will share the need with you.  God does the rest.

Every time I get another email with more needs, I hesitate to share it with others.
It's hard for me to always have my hand out for Oscar.  You see, I'm afraid people will start avoiding me because they are afraid I'll ask for help for him.   I don't want people to run the other way when they see me coming.  I want people to like me.  I hate asking for help.  I just hate it.  BUT for some reason, God decided to put this ministry in my heart, and He has given me the job of telling others.  Seriously, is that so hard to do?  All have to do is tell people and God does the rest.  Is my own need to be "liked and accepted", more important than the job God has trusted me to do?  NO!!!

You see, I know a little something about my good friend, Oscar.  It's hard for him, too,  to send me emails asking for more money.   How do I know this?  Sometimes, Emma will email me.  I love to hear from her.  Her words are sweet and full of faith.  A couple of years ago, she shared with me how hard it is for Oscar to have come to me, asking for help over and over again.  It broke my heart, but I understood.  The difference is that I can put aside the needs of the widows and orphans because I don't face them every day.  But Oscar and Emma can't just look away.  So Oscar does what he must do.  He tells me so that I can tell you. 

Truth Number 3
I cannot fix this problem.  There will always a need.  But just because I can't "fix" the problem does not mean I shouldn't try to help.   Oscar can't help everyone, as much as he'd like to, but Oscar is making a difference, one person at a time.  And we have an opportunity to make a difference through Oscar's work.  One person at a time.

Paul said in his letter to the Corinthians that God doesn't expect us to give what we don't have.  His desire is that we give out of love - not because we have to.  He wants us to give with a cheerful heart, knowing that our gift will lighten someone else's load.

I hope you'll read chapters 8 and 9 of this letter.  Look at verse 3 of chapter 8 -- "For I can testify that they gave not only what they could afford, but far more. They begged us again and again for the privilege of sharing in the gift for the believers in Jerusalem.  They even did more than we had hoped, for their first action was to give themselves to the Lord and to us, just as God wanted them to do."  

The Macedonian believers were being tested in so many ways and they were poor themselves.  In spite of their own problems, when they heard of how much the church in Jerusalem was suffering, they responded out of love and concern.  This story is so personal to me.  I see Oscar's ministry as not unlike the Jerusalem church.  Like them, Oscar has very little resources.  No one works harder to provide for his family and ministry than Oscar and Emma, but when there is no work or food, what else can they do? 

We here in America are able to provide for our families.  There are wonderful ministries that provide food and clothing, even shelter, when one of us is unable to provide for ourselves.  Oscar doesn't have that option.  God has given some of us the blessed burden of coming along side to help Oscar and his Happy Choice ministry. 

Maybe God has not called you to this ministry, but if He has pricked your heart, don't push the emails out of your mind.  Don't forget the needs that Oscar sees every day.  We can't change the world but we can help at least one life be better.  And I guarantee the lives that Oscar touches, those people will know Jesus because of your help and Oscar's determination to help those who are in need.

2 Corinthians 8 (NLT)

A Call to Generous Giving

8 Now I want you to know, dear brothers and sisters, what God in his kindness has done through the churches in Macedonia. ² They are being tested by many troubles, and they are very poor. But they are also filled with abundant joy, which has overflowed in rich generosity.

³ For I can testify that they gave not only what they could afford, but far more. And they did it of their own free will. ⁴ They begged us again and again for the privilege of sharing in the gift for the believers in Jerusalem. ⁵ They even did more than we had hoped, for their first action was to give themselves to the Lord and to us, just as God wanted them to do.

⁶ So we have urged Titus, who encouraged your giving in the first place, to return to you and encourage you to finish this ministry of giving. ⁷ Since you excel in so many ways—in your faith, your gifted speakers, your knowledge, your enthusiasm, and your love from us—I want you to excel also in this gracious act of giving.

⁸ I am not commanding you to do this. But I am testing how genuine your love is by comparing it with the eagerness of the other churches.

⁹ You know the generous grace of our Lord Jesus Christ. Though he was rich, yet for your sakes he became poor, so that by his poverty he could make you rich.

¹⁰ Here is my advice: It would be good for you to finish what you started a year ago. Last year you were the first who wanted to give, and you were the first to begin doing it. ¹¹ Now you should finish what you started. Let the eagerness you showed in the beginning be matched now by your giving. Give in proportion to what you have. ¹² Whatever you give is acceptable if you give it eagerly. And give according to what you have, not what you don’t have. ¹³ Of course, I don’t mean your giving should make life easy for others and hard for yourselves. I only mean that there should be some equality. ¹⁴ Right now you have plenty and can help those who are in need. Later, they will have plenty and can share with you when you need it. In this way, things will be equal. ¹⁵ As the Scriptures say,

“Those who gathered a lot had nothing left over,
and those who gathered only a little had enough.”

Titus and His Companions

¹⁶ But thank God! He has given Titus the same enthusiasm for you that I have. ¹⁷ Titus welcomed our request that he visit you again. In fact, he himself was very eager to go and see you. ¹⁸ We are also sending another brother with Titus. All the churches praise him as a preacher of the Good News. ¹⁹ He was appointed by the churches to accompany us as we take the offering to Jerusalem—a service that glorifies the Lord and shows our eagerness to help.

²⁰ We are traveling together to guard against any criticism for the way we are handling this generous gift. ²¹ We are careful to be honorable before the Lord, but we also want everyone else to see that we are honorable.

²² We are also sending with them another of our brothers who has proven himself many times and has shown on many occasions how eager he is. He is now even more enthusiastic because of his great confidence in you. ²³ If anyone asks about Titus, say that he is my partner who works with me to help you. And the brothers with him have been sent by the churches, and they bring honor to Christ. ²⁴ So show them your love, and prove to all the churches that our boasting about you is justified.

9 I really don’t need to write to you about this ministry of giving for the believers in Jerusalem. ² For I know how eager you are to help, and I have been boasting to the churches in Macedonia that you in Greece were ready to send an offering a year ago. In fact, it was your enthusiasm that stirred up many of the Macedonian believers to begin giving.

³ But I am sending these brothers to be sure you really are ready, as I have been telling them, and that your money is all collected. I don’t want to be wrong in my boasting about you. ⁴ We would be embarrassed—not to mention your own embarrassment—if some Macedonian believers came with me and found that you weren’t ready after all I had told them! ⁵ So I thought I should send these brothers ahead of me to make sure the gift you promised is ready. But I want it to be a willing gift, not one given grudgingly.

⁶ Remember this—a farmer who plants only a few seeds will get a small crop. But the one who plants generously will get a generous crop. ⁷ You must each decide in your heart how much to give. And don’t give reluctantly or in response to pressure. “For God loves a person who gives cheerfully.” ⁸ And God will generously provide all you need. Then you will always have everything you need and plenty left over to share with others. ⁹ As the Scriptures say,

“They share freely and give generously to the poor.
Their good deeds will be remembered forever.”

¹⁰ For God is the one who provides seed for the farmer and then bread to eat. In the same way, he will provide and increase your resources and then produce a great harvest of generosity in you.

¹¹ Yes, you will be enriched in every way so that you can always be generous. And when we take your gifts to those who need them, they will thank God. ¹² So two good things will result from this ministry of giving—the needs of the believers in Jerusalem will be met, and they will joyfully express their thanks to God.

¹³ As a result of your ministry, they will give glory to God. For your generosity to them and to all believers will prove that you are obedient to the Good News of Christ. ¹⁴ And they will pray for you with deep affection because of the overflowing grace God has given to you. ¹⁵ Thank God for this gift too wonderful for words!


Oscar has some "Macedonian" friends among you all.  I so appreciate your prayers and support for Happy Choice.  There are no words that can convey how much it means to me that you guys have been so good to respond to Oscar's ongoing needs.  Thank you from the bottom on my heart.  May God bless you in all things as you have been a blessing to this ministry. 

If God is putting Oscar's ministry on your heart  and you want to donate towards the financial needs of caring for the 12 children at the orphanage, or the widows with whom Emma works, or for Benter and her children, you can donate online through Lost Orphans ministries.  Happy Choice can be accessed through the following website (part of Lost Orphans):

www.gobehope.com  

 

Your donations are tax deductible through this website and any amount is greatly appreciated.  Simply go to  www.gobehope.com , select "meet the children" or "general donations",  and from there be sure to select "Happy Choice" so that Oscar's work will get the donation you make. Once a month, the wonderful people at Lost Orphans, (thank you Kari!)  send whatever funds are in the Happy Choice account by wire to Oscar.   Our goal is to have every child in the orphanage supported through monthly donations. 

Lost Orphans has been a godsend for Happy Choice, and we thank God for their willingness to help.  They're motto:  Go.Be.Hope!  That's exactly what they do. 

Go.Be.Hope!!!

 

I sometimes believe that waiting on God is the hardest thing I have to do.

We live in an "instant gratification" world.  We want something, and we expect to have it NOW.  We hurt, and we want God to take the hurt away immediately.  Sometimes, we forget that the hurts we experience bring immeasurable blessings that we cannot see in the moment.

I've seen people come together in prayer for someone who is sick or in trouble.  Those times, when we forget what church we belong to and simply join hands and hearts with other believers and pray, I think that's when God is most pleased with us.  Remember Jesus's prayer...

John 17:11  
I will remain in the world no longer, but they are still in the world, and I am coming to you. Holy Father, protect them by the power of your name, the name you gave me, so that they may be one as we are one.

Jesus wants us to be one.   We are the body of Christ, one church, one family. 

Today is a big day for Luke Chisholm and his family.  The procedure that is taking place today is the same procedure that created such havoc earlier this week when   David and Rachael stood outside Luke's door as the medical team tried to bring him back after he crashed.  The fear they experienced, the thoughts that went through their heads -- those things are sure to haunt them today as Luke goes through this procedure. 

As they wait and pray, let us pray along side them in spirit.  God is in control, and we can trust Luke to our loving Father.  But waiting is hard.  So please pray for David and Rachael to feel an overwhelming sense of God's peace and love and protection and provision...  Pray that they will not listen to the lies of the Enemy as they wait. 

Please pray without ceasing today, as we wait for Luke to come through this day with amazing victory through the power of our mighty God.

One of the most powerful tools we have is prayer.  But there is also awesome power in praise lifted up to our great and good God.  Praise Him for all He has done, all He is doing and all He will do today in the life of Luke Chisholm.

http://youtu.be/H-M7oGrOa2I  - Waiting on You, Lord - John Waller

Praise the Lord, the God of Israel,
who lives from everlasting to everlasting! 
1 Chronicles 16:36
http://youtu.be/vJdWdZv-uRA - Everlasting God - Chris Tomlin

Strength will rise as we wait upon the Lord
We will wait upon the Lord
We will wait upon the Lord (repeat)
Our God, You reign forever
Our hope, our Strong Deliverer
You are the everlasting God
The everlasting God
You do not faint You won't grow weary
You're the defender of the weak
You comfort those in need
You lift us up on wings like eagles
Isaiah 40
To whom then will you liken God?
Or what likeness will you compare with Him?
19 As for the idol, a craftsman casts it,
A goldsmith plates it with gold,
And a silversmith fashions chains of silver.
20 He who is too impoverished for such an offering
Selects a tree that does not rot;
He seeks out for himself a skillful craftsman
To prepare an idol that will not totter.
 21 Do you not know? Have you not heard?
Has it not been declared to you from the beginning?
Have you not understood from the foundations of the earth?
22 It is He who sits above the circle of the earth,
And its inhabitants are like grasshoppers,
Who stretches out the heavens like a )curtain
And spreads them out like a tent to dwell in.
23 He it is who reduces rulers to nothing,
Who makes the judges of the earth meaningless.
24 Scarcely have they been planted,
Scarcely have they been sown,
Scarcely has their stock taken root in the earth,
But He merely blows on them, and they wither,
And the storm carries them away like stubble.
25 “To whom then will you liken Me
That I would be his equal?” says the Holy One.
26 Lift up your eyes on high
And see who has created these stars,
The One who leads forth their host by number,
He calls them all by name;
Because of the greatness of His might and the strength of His power,
Not one of them is missing.
 27 Why do you say, O Jacob, and assert, O Israel,
“My way is hidden from the LORD,
And the justice due me escapes the notice of my God”?
28 Do you not know? Have you not heard?
The Everlasting God, the LORD, the Creator of the ends of the earth
Does not become weary or tired.
His understanding is inscrutable.
29 He gives strength to the weary,
And to him who lacks might He increases power.
30 Though youths grow weary and tired,
And vigorous )young men stumble badly,
31 Yet those who wait for the LORD
Will gain new strength;
They will mount up with wings like eagles,
They will run and not get tired,
They will walk and not become weary.

Waiting...

I believe God is faithful.  I believe He will do what He says He will do. I believe He loves me.  I believe He wants what's best for me for Eternity - not for just now while I'm on earth.  Since I know all those things about God, why is it so hard for me to trust His timing? 

God promised Abraham that he would have children.  He promised that through Abraham's seed, all nations of the earth would be blessed.  Abraham believed God, but he had to wait on God's timing.

Genesis 15:1-6 -  1 Some time later, the Lord spoke to Abram in a vision and said to him, “Do not be afraid, Abram, for I will protect you, and your reward will be great.”
 2 But Abram replied, “O Sovereign Lord, what good are all your blessings when I don’t even have a son? Since you’ve given me no children, Eliezer of Damascus, a servant in my household, will inherit all my wealth. 3 You have given me no descendants of my own, so one of my servants will be my heir.”
 4 Then the Lord said to him, “No, your servant will not be your heir, for you will have a son of your own who will be your heir.” 5 Then the Lord took Abram outside and said to him, “Look up into the sky and count the stars if you can. That’s how many descendants you will have!”
 6 And Abram believed the Lord, and the Lord counted him as righteous because of his faith.

Abraham waited and waited. 

Sarah - Abram's wife, waited and waited for God to give her a son.  Finally, she just couldn't wait any longer. Sarah decided that since God was not doing what He promised, she would help the situation. After all, God promised Abraham a son, and that wasn't happening.  She was too old to have a child, so she had this brilliant idea. 

Genesis 16:1-3 - 1 Now Sarai, Abram’s wife, had not been able to bear children for him. But she had an Egyptian servant named Hagar. 2 So Sarai said to Abram, “The Lord has prevented me from having children. Go and sleep with my servant. Perhaps I can have children through her.” And Abram agreed with Sarai’s proposal. 3 So Sarai, Abram’s wife, took Hagar the Egyptian servant and gave her to Abram as a wife. (This happened ten years after Abram had settled in the land of Canaan.)

Sarah's plan created the foundation for a conflict that continues even until this day.  Ishmael, the son of Hagar, and Isaac, the son of Sarah became enemies.

Conflict between the two sons of Abraham began from the very start. Genesis 21:9 says the conflict began just after Isaac was weaned: "Now Sarah saw the son of Hagar the Egyptian, whom she had borne to Abraham, mocking."

Galatians 4 tells us that Ishmael had been "born according to the flesh" while Isaac had been "born according to the promise". Isaac replaced Ishmael as the favored son and heir. This, of course, made Ishmael jealous and bitter. As a result, he mocked and disdained his half-brother. Eventually the situation became so intolerable that Abraham's wife Sarah demanded that Ishmael and his Egyptian concubine mother, Hagar, be expelled permanently from Abraham's family.

If only Sarah would have waited on the Lord. 

No matter what I'm facing, I must learn to wait on God's timing and work within His plan.  I don't always know what His plan is but I can learn much about it by reading His Word and praying for guidance and wisdom.  The answer may not come right away.  It may take years, like with Abraham and Sarah.  But God is faithful and He will cause all things to work together for those who love Him - according to His purpose. 

"According to His purpose" - We sometimes leave out that part of the promise.   We expect God to work everything out the way we want Him to.  But His promise is that no matter what happens in our lives, He has a plan and that plan is for our Eternal good. 

This world is not our home. We're on a mission right now, to learn as much as we can about God, to live our lives so that others can see Jesus living in us and want to know Him as their Savior.  That's God's purpose. He wants us to be in Heaven with Him for Eternity. If my heart's desire is for anything less than that, I do not have a promise that God will make my desires come true.  He has bigger plans for me and I can trust that He will work all things together to give me a hope and future - maybe not on earth - but in Eternity. 

Holy Father, You are so faithful and worthy of my complete devotion and praise.  I can trust that You will do what You say You will do.  You always have in the past and I've seen You work in my life so many times, redeeming those situations when I, like Sarah, didn't wait on Your timing. I love You Lord, and I want to be faithful in my obedience to You, even when it means waiting.  Remind me, Lord, that You have a plan that is for my good - Eternally - not just for the little while I'm here on earth.  Today, once again, I commit my life to You.  I will trust Your promise to cause all things to work together for good according to Your purpose and plan which is so much greater than anything I could ask or imagine. In Jesus' Holy Name I pray. Amen.

http://youtu.be/VE0yUobk6TM - Indescribable - Chris Tomlin

http://youtu.be/c1764jKNv7Q - Here I go again - Casting Crowns

John 3 (NIRV)

Jesus Teaches Nicodemus

3 There was a Pharisee named Nicodemus. He was one of the Jewish rulers. ² He came to Jesus at night and said, “Rabbi, we know you are a teacher who has come from God. We know that God is with you. If he weren’t, you couldn’t do the miraculous signs you are doing.”

³ Jesus replied, “What I’m about to tell you is true. No one can see God’s kingdom without being born again.”
⁴ “How can I be born when I am old?” Nicodemus asked. “I can’t go back inside my mother! I can’t be born a second time!”
⁵ Jesus answered, “What I’m about to tell you is true. No one can enter God’s kingdom without being born through water and the Holy Spirit. ⁶ People give birth to people. But the Spirit gives birth to spirit. ⁷ You should not be surprised when I say, ‘You must all be born again.’
⁸ “The wind blows where it wants to. You hear the sound it makes. But you can’t tell where it comes from or where it is going. It is the same with everyone who is born through the Spirit.”
⁹ “How can this be?” Nicodemus asked.
¹⁰ “You are Israel’s teacher,” said Jesus. “Don’t you understand these things?
¹¹ “What I’m about to tell you is true. We speak about what we know. We give witness to what we have seen. But still you people do not accept our witness. ¹² I have spoken to you about earthly things, and you do not believe. So how will you believe if I speak about heavenly things?
¹³ “No one has ever gone into heaven except the One who came from heaven. He is the Son of Man. ¹⁴ Moses lifted up the snake in the desert. The Son of Man must be lifted up also. ¹⁵ Then everyone who believes in him can live with God forever.
¹⁶ “God loved the world so much that he gave his one and only Son. Anyone who believes in him will not die but will have eternal life.
¹⁷ “God did not send his Son into the world to judge the world. He sent his Son to save the world through him. ¹⁸ Anyone who believes in him is not judged. But anyone who does not believe is judged already. He has not believed in the name of God’s one and only Son.
¹⁹ “Here is the judgment. Light has come into the world, but people loved darkness instead of light. They loved darkness because what they did was evil.
²⁰ “Everyone who does evil things hates the light. They will not come into the light. They are afraid that what they do will be seen. ²¹ But anyone who lives by the truth comes into the light. He does this so that it will be easy to see that what he has done is with God’s help.”

John the Baptist Gives Witness About Jesus

²² After this, Jesus and his disciples went out into the countryside of Judea. There he spent some time with them. And he baptized people there.

I'm sure we all have friends who are headed down the wrong path.  We stand by, helplessly, watching them destroy their families and themselves.  We want so much to "save" our friends but our words seem to fall on deaf ears.  But God loves our friends more than we do, and HE is ready and willing to intercede.  The single greatest thing we can do for our friends is PRAY.

There is one other things we can do.  Even if they refuse to hear our words of love and truth, we can live our lives so that our friends, who may never pick up God's Word to hear what He says in His written word, can see Jesus through our words and actions.  You know the saying, "You may be the only Jesus your friend ever sees."   We can let our lives show the incredible blessings, peace and comfort that belonging to Christ provides.

So testify to His faithfulness in your life -  every single day - with words or without when necessary.  And pray, pray, pray.

Here's a prayer for all our friends who are stuggling.


Holy Father,
Friends I love are caught up in their sin, determined to live by their own understanding, rather than God's way, and it's affecting the lives of people around them. 
But they do not want help nor do they listen to reason and good sense or even Christian counsel from others who have 'been there'.  They are on a path that leads to destruction and pain.  I'm frustrated because I know exactly where they're headed, and I can't make them see.  Please help me to not react and do or say anything to make the situation worse. But LORD, let my words come from You and not from my own wisdom. Help me to shut my mouth when I should and to listen with my heart. Please open the eyes of my friends, enlighten their minds, and speak to their hearts. Draw them to You. Fill them with spiritual wisdom, increase their knowledge and maturity, and break down the strongholds that keep them from doing what is right and from following your will. Please help my friends.  LORD, only You can change the situation.   In the powerful Name of Jesus Christ I pray, amen. 





http://youtu.be/TgZ1ds0WM2k - Testify to Love - Avalon

Defeating the Blahs!

http://youtu.be/gMn28AK99To - Move - MercyMe

Do you ever get the blahs?  I think all of us do from time to time.  I'm not talking about those serious bouts of depression that last several days or weeks.  That type of Depression may require medical intervention.  I'm talking about those days when you just don't feel like doing anything at all, and you might not even know why. 


      On those days, my mind needs to be renewed.

Romans 12:1-2
Therefore, I urge you, brothers, in view of God's mercy, to offer your bodies as living sacrifices, holy and pleasing to God - this is your spiritual act of worship. Do not conform any longer to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.  Then you will be able to test and approve what God's will is - His good, pleasing and perfect will.

Not very often, but too often for me, I get the blahs. They always come unexpected and unwelcomed.  I'm a pretty up-beat, happy person.  But when I get the blahs, I feel like the life has just been sucked out of me.  I don't care about anything.  I don't want to do anything.  Nothing seems to make it any better.  It's not a good place to be, and I'm very thankful that it doesn't happen very often. or last very long.

I know people who are moody. They let the cares of the world just put them into a funk. They get into a bad mood and seem perfectly fine with making everyone else feel just as miserable as they feel.  I hate that!  I don't understand why they don't just "snap out of it!"   Right?  Why don't they just decide to be happy?  But then I have one of my "blah" days, and I realize it's not that easy to just "snap out of it".  It takes more strength than what I have.  I need help.


Why do we get the blahs?
There are several reasons we get the "blahs".  Life can be overwhelming at times. All of us have so many things we need to take care of.  Some days I feel like a really bad juggler. I try so hard to keep all the balls in the air, but then I drop one, and then another,,, and suddenly, all the balls are on the floor, rolling around everywhere. I begin to feel out of control and hopeless. 

Fortunately for me, those days don't happen very often, but when they do happen, I have no energy, no motivation, no desire to get up and do anything, and when I do move, it feels like  I'm trying to walk in two feet of mud with boots on. The worst part is I just don't care about anything.  That is not what God wants for me.

Long bouts of illness, our own or someone we love, can cause us to feel that sense of dullness, and boredom.  We become lethargic and even a tiny move seems to take every ounce of energy we have.  Medications can cause depression, too. It's hard to get well physically when our bodies are fighting depression. 

Difficult Relationships can also create a feeling of defeat.  Maybe you have a co-worker or employer, a classmate at school, a family member, a neighbor, or maybe even a fellow church member who just seems intent on making your life miserable. You'd like to just remove that person from your life, but circumstances force you to interact with him or her. If you have to deal with that person very often, you may find yourself in that "I don't care" mode.  Maybe that's the only way you can get through the day.

Lack of Sunshine - Many people suffer from the blahs during the winter months.  The lack sunshine can affect our sense of well being.  We just want to crawl back into bed and sleep rather than face the day. There are physiological reasons for winter blues - lack of vitamin D and exercise (we don't get outside and move around as much during the winter months) can be a big contributor to our outlook and attitudes. 

Unconfessed Sin - I think, too, the blahs can come when we have unresolved sin in our lives.  Maybe it's unforgiveness or bitterness towards someone; or maybe we're doing something that God doesn't want us to do. For me, when I fail to do something I know God wants me to do, I begin to feel a distance from Him.  It's not God creating that distance, but me.  I know what I should be doing, and when I'm not doing what I know to do, I feel guilty. If I'm not careful, I'll begin to believe the lies that the Enemy is whispering in my ear.  I'll start believing that I'm unworthy to spend time with God. After all, how dare I come into His presence when I'm willfully being disobedient to what He has for me to do! But that is not from God! During those times, Satan tells me to pull away from God, but God tells to draw near to Him, and He'll renew my spirit.

What can we do to "snap out of it" on our "blah" days?

Slow down - Rest - If I'm sick, tired or overwhelmed, maybe I do need to craw back in bed and just rest.  Maybe God's telling me to slow down, to stop stressing and just rest in His Arms.  When I choose this cure, I try to imagine that God is holding me as I sleep; that I am resting in His love and protection. If I can't sleep, I focus on all the blessings He provides.  It's hard to feel bad when I think about all the good things HE has done for me. Sometimes, I listen to my Bible CD. Hearing God's Word spoken over me can be soothing, too. 

Listen to uplifting music - Usually, uplifting music can get me moving in the right direction.  Mercy Me's "Move" is a great song that lifts my spirits every time I hear it. The song speaks God's promises to me; it encourages me and reminds me that brighter days are coming.

Exercise  - Get moving.  The link I included above is a YouTube video of a young lady using the song MOVE with a Zumba routine. If you're feeling lethargic and have no energy, I highly recommend that you watch this video and try to exercise along with the instructor.  I generally end up laughing my way through the song because I haven't quite mastered "Zumba" yet. And NO!!! I will not be including a video of my Zumba experience.  = )  But still when I get up and move - whether it's doing an exercise video, running, walking, whatever it might be that helps to get me up off the couch, I feel more energetic and more optimistic.  It doesn't work every time, but it's one of my favorite options when I'm struggling to feel happy again.

Prayer and Time with GOD - This is always my first option. When I start feeling a little down, I pray and ask God to renew my spirit.  I know He has promised that He will do that for me.

I can sit in my backyard or go to the park and just sit still and watch all of nature.  I see God's provision and His creativity, His attention to the smallest detail. Even with tiny little insects, He has shown us His love and care.  I am always comforted by just sitting still with God.  When I do that, He renews my spirit - my thoughts and attitudes begin to change.  But note the verse below. Paul tells us that we should let the Spirit renew our thoughts and attitudes.  We have the Holy Spirit living in us, and we have full access to His power and strength, but we can stifle that power if we don't allow Him to work in our lives.  We must be willing to give Him control if we want to be fully renewed.

Quiet time with God is when I need to ask for forgiveness for any sins in my life, specifically, those I know about, and any sins I may not even be aware of. I need to ask God to purify my heart, to make me more like what He wants me to be.  I want Him to change me, to mold me and make me to be more like Jesus.  More of Jesus - less of me.  That's my prayer. 

I also ask God to give me wisdom to make good decisions and to prioritize according to His plan for me. When I'm feeling down or discouraged, usually that means I'm thinking way to much of myself instead of others.  When I seek to comfort others more than to be comforted myself, God does this amazing thing:  He comforts me Himself!

Ephesians 4:22-24 - .throw off your old sinful nature and your former way of life, which is corrupted by lust and deception. 23 Instead, let the Spirit renew your thoughts and attitudes. 24 Put on your new nature, created to be like God—truly righteous and holy.

Depression, discouragement, feelings of being overwhelmed, boredom, feeling like nothing matters - all those things are from our sinful nature.  Paul is saying "remember who you are.  You have a new nature.  You are not slaves to the old nature anymore." Those negative thoughts are not from God. We must stand firm against the Enemy because he will grab any tiny little foothold he can to bring us down.  He wants us to dwell on the negative thoughts and emotions; he wants us to wallow in our despair.  How do we win this battle? By taking every thought captive to see if it lines up with what Christ says is true. If the thought is not from Christ, we must not let it stay in our heads.  We give it to Christ and let Him take it away.

2 Corinthians 5:10 -                                                                                                        We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.

When we refuse to let those thoughts which are not from God stay in our heads, we must also be proactive in filling our minds with positive messages from God.  When a negative thought or attitude creeps into my brain, I ask God to take away, and then I intentionally replace that negative thought with things that are of God. I start listing my blessings or singing a song of praise or maybe I'll read one of David's psalms. I fill my head with God's word.  If I don't replace the negative with something positive, the negative thought will come back stronger and bring some of his buddies.  = ( 

Luke 11:24-26  - “When an evil spirit leaves a person, it goes into the desert, searching for rest. But when it finds none, it says, ‘I will return to the person I came from.’ 25 So it returns and finds that its former home is all swept and in order. 26 Then the spirit finds seven other spirits more evil than itself, and they all enter the person and live there. And so that person is worse off than before.”

Philippians 4:8
Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable—if anything is excellent or praiseworthy—think about such things.

I have to remember that God has a plan for me, and it's a plan for good and not evil, a plan to give me a hope and a future. I can trust Him to provide everything I need to rise above the negative thoughts and attitudes that threaten to bring me down.  I can rejoice even when I'm feeling weak  because when I feel weak, that's when I turn to God. His power can work best in me when I rely on His strength .I cannot do this life on my own.  I need my Savior.

2 Corinthians 12:8-10 -                                                                                                  Three different times I begged the Lord to take it away. 9 Each time he said, “My grace is all you need. My power works best in weakness.” So now I am glad to boast about my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ can work through me. 10 That’s why I take pleasure in my weaknesses, and in the insults, hardships, persecutions, and troubles that I suffer for Christ. For when I am weak, then I am strong. 

Father God, You are my safe place.  When this world tries to drag me down, You are the One I run to.  I feel Your Protection and Your Provision every single day.  I praise You, LORD, Creator of heaven and earth!  I'm in awe of Your majesty, Your power and might, but most of all I am blown away by Your great love and mercy towards me.  Thank You for redeeming me through Your precious Son.  Thank You for forgiving me and making me whole by the power of His blood.  Holy God, use me however You see fit to bring glory to Your Name.  Help me to turn to You when I feel discouraged.  Help me to quickly recognize the lies that Satan would have me believe.  I am Your child and I am worthy, not from anything I've done, but all because of Jesus. I love You, LORD, with all my heart.





http://youtu.be/N0HozFRRp9Y - Back to You - Mercy Me 


As I was research this topic, I came across this wonderful website: www.JeffRandleman.com .  Jeff is youth minister for Mountainview Christian Church in Missouri.  He listed 16 proactive tips on how to beat the blahs. 

To read the full article, please go to http://www.jeffrandleman.com/16-things-you-can-do-to-beat-the-blahs .


So I’ve put together a list of things that I’ve found helpful in beating the blahs.
Run away from your moods. When you recognize that you are in a funk, intentionally run away from it. Make it a point to eliminate this attitude from your day.

Celebrate the good. My summer has been so hectic and traumatic. One way to get past that is to celebrate the great things that have happened. Positive thinking can have a huge impact on both your attitude and energy.

Boost your energy. Exercise. Run. Bike. Walk. Hike. Whatever. Exercise can help. My personal favorite is geocaching. It gets me out and moving. I find it relaxing, and yet mentally challenging as well.

Treat yourself to a snack. Make it a comfort food. Or choose a healthier option. Either one is ok. The point here is not to gorge yourself, but to eat something you enjoy in order to help change your attitude.

Read a good book. Grab a great story, or something inspiring. Or sit down with your Bible for a while. Just a suggestion… don’t read Lamentations at a time like this.
Appreciate something beautiful. Step outside and look around. Look at the sunset, the clouds, the leaves on the trees, the butterfly that just floated past. Enjoy the beauty of your surroundings.

Release your emotions. It’s ok to cry if you need to.

Talk to a friend. Grab a trusted friend and go to lunch. Let them know how you are feeling. They may have some great suggestions. And if not, at least you know someone is there to lean on. That in itself can be a huge help.

Do something for someone else. One of the best ways to change a bad attitude into a better one is to look beyond yourself and help someone else. Trust me; this works.

Spruce yourself up. Dress sharper. If you look good, you’ll soon start to feel good.

Journal it. Write down how you are feeling, and be detailed. It may be helpful to step back and look at the big picture. Plus, later, you can see how God stepped in and changed things.

Listen to some inspiring music. Music has the power to lift you up. Turn on something positive and encouraging. My personal choice is Howard Shore’s film score to the Lord of the Rings trilogy.

Do something different. Step out of your normal routine. Do something you don’t normally do. Changing things up a bit can be helpful.

Laugh. Nothing can lift your spirits like a good laugh. Go find someone who can make you laugh. Watch a funny TV show. Read a few great jokes. Spend time with your kids, watching them. My kids are a constant source of smiles and laughter for me.

Rest. Sometimes the best thing you can do is rest and relax for a while.

Look for balance in your life. Try to eliminate things that elicit the negative; focus on the things that bring more positive thoughts and attitudes.

The blahs are normal. Everyone experiences them. In fact, they may even be somewhat beneficial. They can be an indicator that you need to slow down or stop. They can indicate that it’s time for a break from the steady routine of life.

But the blahs can be beat. This list is just the beginning. I know there are many, many more things that can help overcome the blahs. These are just some of the things that I’ve found to work in my life. Give them a shot. Maybe they can help you as well.

What do you do to beat the blahs? 
   
           from  http://www.jeffrandleman.com/16-things-you-can-do-to-beat-the-blahs .

Thanks, Jeff, for letting me share these great ideas!